I don't know when I stopped wanting to be the best version of myself at the expense of what others thought, but it's a thing.
Amen girlfriend. I think the last handful of years have DEFINITELY been a filtering and a sifting season for the whole body! One, that in the end leaves us with the “ your in this or your not” question! We have been forced to be quitters and conquers. That person was absolutely correct! It’s okay to be great! No more hiding; no one really understands us like God anyway 😉