People can't become what you don't know you need...
We have to stop expecting people to be what we can’t articulate. Too many carry around unexpressed, unmet expectations that only lead to isolation and disappointment.
Community and friendships become what you invest into them.
By no means am I communicating open access to you without boundaries.
Please, everyone does not need to be within arms reach or perusing the inner courts of knowing all the intimate details of your life. However, we can not keep claiming no new friends and wonder why depression is at an all-time high.
Deception is the fruit of the enemy.
Do not be deceived.
Stop rehearsing the narrative of doing life alone or telling yourself nobody cares. We care; we just do not know what you need from us.
Get honest with yourself. What do you need? What do you need more of?
Stop entertaining distrust and open up.
Start allowing people to evolve into what you learn to articulate.
Yes, pay attention to red flags. Also, start to identify the difference between red flags in them and character flaws in you.
Active the wisdom of the Lord.
We need people.
Life was NEVER meant to be done alone OR without God.
I'm grateful for those who see my humanity and stay.
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